CRIS CRACKS: Black Or White
Cris Seetha wonders who is that really notorious but powerful mind who separated men by the colour of their skin?
On Jul 04, 2010
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I see trees of green, red roses too
I see them bloom for me and you And I think to myself, what a wonderful world I see skies of blue, and clouds of white Bright blessed days, dark sacred nights And I think to myself, what a wonderful world. So sang Louis Armstrong in the 1960s. Yes when you look around you see it all – red roses, green trees, blue skies, white clouds. Every colour is out there in nature for you to see and marvel at. And they blend so well. The green leaves creep to touch the red roses. The white clouds spread over the blue skies. The red apples, the yellow mangoes and the red plums all stick close to their green leaves. Nature tells you that colours are not to stand apart, they are to stay together, stick to one another. Then where did man get the idea to separate people of different colours - into black, white, brown and yellow and not let them mix with each other? Who decided that one colour was inferior to another? A really notorious mind but a powerful one to have spread that thought all through the world. For its effects last until today. Kerala is not far behind. Remember the matrimonial ads seeking “a fair girl” of so much wealth? Thus came your fairness creams in the market. And does it sell! It sounds sick when people say “karuppaanengilum bhangiyundu” (even though someone is black, he/she looks good), as if it was an unattainable feat to remain beautiful when you are dark. Malayali’s obsession for colour has been discussed and debated for ages but there is still very little difference in attitude. How else can innocent little girls and boys who have just about started to identify colours come to feel that being born dark is something to be ashamed of? I know many dark skinned people who have quite a complex about their colours. For some it is inferiority, but some others declare it the supreme colour. I knew a girl who used to say she hated fair skinned people and later admitted that she said it only because everyone else hated dark skined girls like her. |
Everyone learns their beauty-is-skin-deep lessons in school but no one ever goes deeper beyond skin. No one waits to see if underneath that dark skin is a golden character. And sooner than later, they all regret their colour-sensitive decisions when what is inside is no match to what is outside. No, no! We are not going to pretend that all fair skinned are dark inside or vice versa. We are just saying that colour is no pointer to one’s character. It is just a hormone inside your body that decides it. Less of it means lighter skin. And there ends the matter!
The only reason why the colour complex still thrives in Kerala is because our people keep giving importance to it, and teach their little ones the same theory. If instead of that, the new generations growing up, are kept insulated from such absurd concepts, they wouldn't feel concerned about something as shallow as the colour of their skin. They will grow up knowing that the only thing they need to keep fair is their character and apply as many ‘fairness drops’ as they can to keep it shining. A little before Armstrong sang ‘what a wonderful world’, one man said a few words that still sends chills down the spine of many. Yep, the man is Martin Luther King Jr. and these were his words - “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the colour of their skin, but by the content of their character.” And today, let’s hope the reality is doing much bigger rounds than that. I Said If You're Thinkin' Of Being My Brother It Don't Matter If You're Black Or White - Michael Jackson ![]() Cris Seetha
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Comments
Its true Cris apartheid is still with us albeit it is banned; I hope eradication of the same must come from each of us individually.
Jose Davis,
on Jul 04, 2010 03:27:41 PM
That's right Jose, there is no other alternative.
Cris,
on Jul 05, 2010 01:47:27 AM
Was it heartfelt, the words that you wrote? Or were they just words for words' sake? Or in other words were you like Michael Jackson who sang `It don't matter if you're black or white' even while deperately trying to whiten the black of his skin? There was this one line in your piece that made me think you were being superficial. Here's the one: ``We are not going to pretend that all fair skinned are dark inside or vice versa''. By this you were clearly suggesting that dark or black was synonymous with bad and fair or white was synonymous with good. Who told you so?
Subin Mehta,
on Jul 05, 2010 11:00:59 PM
Subin, Thanks for your comment. That line was in continuation of the previous line which said that people find out later that the outer colour is no match to the inner. That makes it sound like a generalisation that all fair skinned are dark inside. I was trying to make my meaning clear that is all. Certainly do hope people wouldnt consider it superficial when the issue is something that has pained me for so many years and I have tried desperately to convince everyone I could.
Cris,
on Jul 06, 2010 12:10:59 AM
Well said Cris. Well said. Colours, religions, language, ethnicity... Man seems to have found so many ways to put themselves in little compartments where he can breathe nothing but stale air!
Ekanthapadhikan,
on Jul 06, 2010 10:15:41 PM
"And they blend so well. The green leaves creep to touch the red roses. The white clouds spread over the blue skies. The red apples, the yellow mangoes and the red plums all stick close to their green leaves"...excellent and original strain of thought....the construction is great and different...keep it up....for a moment u were inspired like a poet and then u wrote standard stuff!!!
Johnny,
on Jul 07, 2010 05:22:18 PM
Thank you Ekanthapadhikan, hopefully that will change as we progress through the years!
@Johnny, thank you :-)
Cris,
on Jul 08, 2010 01:42:07 PM
well, is color such an important thing in malayali's life? or maybe, its just my idealistic view of kerala (that leads to the thought color is unimportant) that seems to be breaking apart every now and then.
Deepak,
on Aug 30, 2010 07:27:14 PM
@Deepak, very much it seems. Otherwise we wouldn't still see matrimonial columns seeking "fair" girls. Many seem to equate fair with beauty and dark with ugly in fact.
Cris,
on Aug 30, 2010 09:35:21 PM
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